I am writing an article on affairs and I am researching if men who have fabulous sex with a woman outside their marriage (their affair) ever think (yearn for) of the "mistress" when they are at home with their wife? Do the thoughts get in the way with your relationship with your wife?
Only if he has started to love her, and not just using her for sex.
I have witnessed men fall good and hard for their mistress, to the point they almost became suicidal because for whatever reason, they could not leave their wifemen in affairs. It ruins marriages when it's got to that stage.
But I have also seen married men simply using another woman for sex, and very happily switching off when he goes home to his wife, and not give the other woman a second thought. This is when he really is only using her for sex.
yes i believe the thoughts about the other woman do get in the way or so it was this way in my marriage. it literally destroys the marriage and will cause your mate to begin treating you disrespectfully, and find fault with everything you domen in affairs. when they do fall for the mistress i think its all that they can think of, and it takes so much away from his home life and marriage. suddenly you don't feel loved or special in his eyes anymore, suddenly your no longer important and its almost as if your ignored.
I think that happens when they start to fall for the mistress.
some do especailly when he has to make love to her and he is imagining his mistress instead.
some do..some even find a way to contact the mistress to say they are thinking of them
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